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September 4, 2012
Anonymous asked: Dear Diary, I am an 18 year old gay guy. I have never been with a girl, nor a boy. I had many chances with women but refuse them. I am a virgin, I am sexually frustrated, and I want to find someone. I recently met this older man, 44 year old on Grindr. He seems nice, Ive spoken to him through phone and he seems cool. He asked me if I ever wanted to hang out with him for a good time and I said yes. Should I do it? I want a good time, but should I go for it? thanks.
First off, age is nothing but a number, if both people are in it for the right reasons. By him saying he wants to hang out with you for “a good time”… it sounds like he’s just wanting to hook up and have his way with you. I don’t suggest it. If he’s a genuinely nice guy who just wants to get to know you, then by all means, have your fun! Just be safe and don’t do anything against your own good morals.
Anonymous asked: Dear diary... There is this guy that I dated but he was cheating on me with 3 other girls at the same time so I dumped him but now it's almost a year later and I can't get him off my mind. I think I like him again but I shouldn't because I hate him because he hurt me and I'm honestly so confused...
Honestly, once a cheater, always a cheater. I suggest you stay away from him. Yes, doing so will be hard, but it will benefit you in the end when you don’t end up getting your heart broken again.
Anonymous asked: Dear Diary.... Why the distance relationships do not work? I loved him, and he loved me too. I am a Brazilian girl, and he is an English boy, I loved him.
I can’t answer that question for you. All I can say is that every single person is completely different. Some are content with loving from a distance while others need their significant other there in person. It’s all based on one’s own preference! If you loved him, then get him back.
Anonymous asked: Dear Diary there is this guy who I like, but I never talked to him. I don't know how can I start a conversation and I don't know if he is gay, do you think it would inappropriate to ask? If yes what you think I should do to get to know him?
If you really do think he’s gay, then just ask. It can’t hurt! If he’s not, then at least you asked to make sure! If he is, then all the better! Make a move!
Anonymous asked: Dear diary, there is this BI guy at my school, who I really like. I've tried sending signals to him, but he's not getting him. We've talked a few times and have hung out too. How do I show him that I like him? Scared crusher.
Dear Sacred Crusher,
Just tell him that you’re interested in him. What do you have to lose?
Anonymous asked: Dear Diary, so I came out to my bestfriend and told that I like him almost a year ago. He asid he was cool with it, but he stopped talking to me all together a week after I told him. I thought I'd be over him by now, but whenever I see him at school I just feel crushed and get on the verge of tears. What do I do? -StuckAnon
Have you tried talking to him about it? Asking him why he distanced himself from you after coming out? In most situations it’s expected… that the guy will feel weird and go away. Only true friends will really be there by your side. Just ask him. Get an answer.
Anonymous asked: dear diary, im a guy. am in confused on if im bi or not. people say there is not such thing but i don't know,. i find girls attractive but penis turns me on. i don't know if im attracted to the sexual feeling with guys or what. thanks, confused boy.
Dear Confused Boy,
Try them both out! There’s no harm in either. Find out what one you’re more comfortable with and go with that.
Anonymous asked: Dear Diary, Okay there's this guy I can't get off my mind. He always claims me as his best friend but practically flirts with me while we're texting. He even admitted TO ME that he would date me but he never asked me out. He literally texts me 24/7 but barely talks to me in person. I feel like he tries to make me jealous by talking to other girls and hugging them also. I just want to know what's on his mind already! Why won't he ask me out or talk to me in person? Signed, Confused Teenager
Dear Confused Teenager,
Ignore him for a little bit. Do your own thing and flirt with other people. If he likes you and is only trying to make you jealous, he’ll come running back in no time.